So, five days before I arrived to class, I was on the phone with my boyfriend. We said “I love you” to each other and hung up around 8. Then around 10, I found out my boyfriend had unfollowed me on Instagram. I know it happened that day because when I woke up, we were still following each other. I was confused because everything was fine.
So I texted him, “Why would you unfollow me?” He replied, “hehe I didn’t, what are you talking about babe?” I told him it’s not funny, to follow me back, and asked why he was doing petty stuff. Then he said, “Follow my spam.”
WHICH I DIDN’T.
I told him how weird it is for my own boyfriend to unfollow me on his main account and then want me to follow his spam. He said, “Nothings that deep, it’s not serious, people have worse problems, you’ll be okay.”
I told him he wasn’t taking accountability and was dismissing my feelings when I was calmly communicating. At first, I was overthinking and wondering if I was being insane, but the truth is… it hurt. And if something hurts me, I’m going to speak up. I know it’s just social media and I honestly don’t care about that stuff, but it is weird for my own boyfriend to not follow me. It happened five days ago, and I’m still not over it because it hurt me.