I am a 25M and my wife is also 25F. We haven't been intimate in over 3 months now because she have said she's scared to get pregnant. I believe this all started because she started taking politics seriously all of a sudden and it's been affecting both of us in a bad way. It did get to the point where she would cutoff all her friends if they had a different political view. I manage to talk sense into her about it but there are times when it does come out of the box. Another thing she does more is spend nearly all day, on tiktok live even sleeping on there sometimes, which I don't understand why she's doing that. We still go out on dates, hold hands and stuff and she does teases me sometimes but everytime I try to do the same thing she says I'm doing too much. It has been affecting my self image lot and I don't feel like I'm attractive anymore to her but everytime we talk about this she thinks I'm demanding sex from her which is not my intention. I want her to feel intimate towards me and want her to have that feeling so she doesn't feel forced but any attempt I make, washing dishes, cleaning the house, walking and feeding the dog, doesn't me feel appreciated by her. She have said she appreciates me and does find me attractive but I'm starting to doubt that since she spends more time on tiktok than with me. Even during serious conversation I have been shut down because I asked her to put her phone down since we are having a conversation but I'm hit with anger from her. I starting to feel like I'm just a roommate in my own home than a husband because I'm not appreciated by my wife and she's only teases me because she wants to get a reaction out of me. What am I suppose to do?