I became involved in the local music scene and met this guy, let’s call him Taylor. I was looking to start a band and Taylor and two friends ended up joining! Initially I thought he was cute but his age put me off. Now we’re starting to get to know each other and I find myself thinking of him more often. I don’t think it’s one sided either but don’t have conclusive evidence on this.
I feel like if I were a man I wouldn’t think twice lol but as a woman the norm is usually to look for guys older than you. I know im not a cougar or robbing the cradle, and while i’m not looking to settle down at the moment I know that’s going to be a path i’ll go down in a few years and that may be a problem with the age difference.
So in short, the age difference is throwing me off. Plus the added mess of being in a band together. I guess i’m looking for advice from people who have been in similar situations at this age? Is this just a recipe for disaster?