I'm 26M, good job, my own place, 2 cats, I think I'm attractive, lots of hobbies, healthy social life but I cannot figure out this dating puzzle. I get a handful of matches on dating apps but most of the conversations fizzle out quickly. There's always a front runner but that either eventually fizzles out or we'll go on a few dates and I'll get the "im not ready for a relationship, mental health, too busy blahblahblah". I'm a very confident person, I enjoy doing things solo, even traveling. I'll frequently go to concerts and hang out at bars in the "hip" part of my nearby major city (Philadelphia). But when I try to talk to women it seems like I'm bothering them. I like hiking, rock climbing, concerts, fishing, kayaking, building models, hockey. But none of these have led to anything. I have 2 separate friend groups but those haven't led to connections either. I'm ready to take the next step and want to find somebody to enjoy life with and grow together but I just don't know where to look. How are people meeting these days?