My boyfriend and I have been dating for five years. Currently, his TPS status got cancelled and now we're faced with the choice to get married or risk him being removed from the US. Getting married would be the best move however, we are not financially ready to join our lives together. I'm doing well money wise and has always worked throughout our relationship. He has refused to get a job that would require him to work under someone else. He has hustled and strived to be an entrepreneur (with no success) and is now taking interior painting gigs to keep him afloat. In the beginning of our relationship his painting gigs were more consistent, and I was ok with that because he was making a living for himself. Now the gigs are slow. Per him working a regular job would make him miserable. Every time I would suggest for him to apply to jobs until his business takes off, he gets angry and accuse me of not believing in him. We are pressed for time, and I can't enter a marriage with money troubles. I'm also bothered at the fact that he may be taking this marriage possibility serious now that he might leave. I stayed in this relationship because I had hope that he would see the light and make the right moves for us. I love this person very much. I know this is going to hurt immensely. need advice on how to grieve the end of this relationship.