I've been dating a girl for almost a full year now. She's the lead singer of a very popular all woman punk band. The band started out being just popular in our city but then they broke out big time. Like they're planning a second global tour right now.
There's constantly dudes hitting on her at every show, at first I could handle it, but now actual A-list celebrities are starting to follow them and I'm starting to doubt myself. She does give me reassurance and I know I should trust her. I do trust her to not cheat on me. Maybe I'm just letting my insecurity spill out a little bit. I just don't wanna have fuckin Timothy Chalomet or whatever try to steal my girl cause how tf do I deal with that? Have you ever seen that dude? It's like looking at a grown up baby cherub.
If she leaves me behind I'd be happy for her and her budding career, but I don't want it to be because I'm over here being jealous. Am I being jealous? This is a truly unique problem to me and there's not many people I can talk to about this.
The other girls in the band all have girlfriends that all live in the same house together in our city. They all have part time jobs so they constantly go visit their gfs when they tour outside of our state.
Cheating or jealousy has never been an issue in our relationship. And I sort of knew what I was getting into when I was coming in with her being so popular and all. I've dated popular girls in school and college before, but this is different.
I guess I just want to know how I mentally stay grounded in a situation like this.
Edit: ty everyone for your support! I'm just gonna nut up and talk to her about these feelings. And sign up for therapy again. And uh.. I dunno just continue to be cool I guess.
For everyone wondering what band it is: just know she's super hot and I'm not telling ya shiiiiit