Matched with a girl back in the beginning of October but a day later she flew across the country for a medical emergency (type of rehab) for 5 weeks. We texted, FaceTimed, phone called quite a bit. She would be the one to initiate FT and calls because her service was spotty. We made plans of places to go when she got back. We were both excited to meet. She flew back last Friday night.
It was late but she said she wanted to meet up soon. I gave her a couple days to settle back in from being gone for so long. I reached out 2 days later to see how her first week back was going and I'm pretty sure she changed her number. iMessage sends as texts and VM is no longer set up.
She hasn't deleted me on the dating app and I sent a FB friend request and hasn't denied it. I'm torn between being concerned something happened with her (she stated on our last call that she thinks the treatment might not have helped) and she really just played me so hard.
I never saw this coming. I really liked her. I sent her a msg on the dating app telling her I’m not sure why the 180 and that I was looking forward to meeting her and left my number if she ever changes her mind. Left it at that.
First time trying to date again after a few years and this was my experience. I’m so depressed by this.