Have been together for 10 years, 5 now married.
I never asked to be my girlfriend and just happened to be living together , same with proposing.
We married during Covid as we were moving to another country.
Wife has always felt that I was never quite tender and a loving husband.
Last year I confessed about a debt of over $20,000 and she stayed but no real effort and compromise from my part.
We relocated back to our country on July this year to pursue new job opportunities but now she feels that I will not change and wants to divorce so she can heal.