Hello I’m not really sure how to start this so I’ll just explain with context
Since 2020 I’ve realized my past ex-friends and my new friends haven’t ever texted me unless I texted them first. Even when I brought it up with my past friends it never changed. I’ve never really been the most social person but I try to socialize with my friends when I can. I’m a very introverted person and also reflected if I did something wrong I don’t understand I’m I boring? The thing is we don’t have very similar interests and I try to talk about the interest with the same passion but it’s a little harder for me too. I love my friends and want to speak to them but they are very dry over texts but friendly in our class’s, even my boyfriend does this(he isn’t dry over texts much). I don’t understand why they don’t ever want to text me about any interest we share?
I’ve tried to rationalize This and thought of maybe my friends aren’t in a good place or they just are busy but I know they aren’t most days and my therapist just isn’t helping anymore,I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like I’m drowning any advice?