I’m 40F and my husband is 40M. We’ve been married for 3 years but have known each other since junior high. Yesterday morning, something happened that I can’t get out of my head.
I had just stopped by the house after work to grab my charger. All the kids were gone. My husband was in our bedroom with the door cracked slightly. When I walked past, I saw him taking pictures of his junk. I don’t think he realized I was there because I backed away immediately and didn’t say anything.
Here’s the part that’s really bothering me:
He has always told me he doesn’t believe in dirty pictures and that he’s never taken or sent any. He’s also never sent me anything like that in the years we’ve been together.
He still hasn’t mentioned it, and I haven’t brought it up, but the whole thing is stuck in my mind. If this happened to you, would you confront your partner? Let it go? See if he brings it up first?
I’m not trying to assume the worst. I just genuinely don’t know how to feel or what my next move should be.