The guy ive been messing around with for a couple of months now got weird with me when I told him I have feelings for him and want more from him. He claims he "isnt over his ex" and that hes not "in the place to be tied down in an emotional way especially since the foundation was built on us messing around"
Mind you he started being all sexual with me. It wasn't me, yes I stupidly took the bait and fell for it because I like him and am so attracted to him. (We never met in person but were friends on social media for years and Ive always found him attractive and had a crush on him) so of course when he gave me the opportunity for anything I ran with it.
I didnt wanna lose him completely so ive somewhat settled with the idea of us just fucking around. According to him hes "off the dating apps" but my friend found him on one and matched with him purposely to see if he shoots his shot with her. Of course he does. They've set up a date. (Shes not actually going) but I wanted to see if his flakey ass can commit to something and actually go through with it since he always flaked and made excuses with me.
So far hes responsive to her and actually set up a date. I am extremely hurt because he is completely different with her than with me. Hes not longer responding to my messages. He barely used to respond unless it was for sex.
My issue here is that I am SICK AND TIRED of men LYING but acting completely different when its another woman. Like clearly he didnt wanna date ME, clearly he doesnt want a relationship with ME and it bugs me so much. Im tired of not being picked.
Why do men do this?!