My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year, and recently we stopped being a long distance relationship and therefore we were able to have sex.
When we first tried to have sex my vagina just wouldn't let his dick inside, we kept trying to push it in but it would just find it easier to slip upwards. It has gone inside me once (when using a lot of lube and spending a lot of time stretching me out) but it slipped out at one point during the sex and I was on top and accidentally crushed his dick which made him soft again.
For context, I am (was) a virgin but he has had sex before with a previous partner with no issues. His penis is very girthy and my vagina is very tight so I feel like that could be a difficulty as my rabbit vibrator is a lot smaller than him so Im not used to letting in his size if that makes sense? Also his dick stands straight up to his bellybutton so when we try to have sex we need to kind of fiddle with it and pull it in place so sometimes the faffing makes him soft which wont be helping. We have only tried cowgirl and missionary so far so it could be that other positions will work better with our anatomy? Or I could have a problem as my pelvic muscles are very weak (like I cant hold a keagle at all, only pulse it).
I visited him at his university this weekend and we tried to do cowgirl again but he just wouldn't go in, so I sucked him off. We have a very good sex life regardless and do other sorts of freaky activities but I really want to have sex with the man I love without all this hassle and difficulty 🙁
Please give any tips, positions or any form of help as I really want this to work.