There is a hostess at a restaurant that I see nearly everytime I go there. The last time I was there I was thinking to myself: "Man up, make a move." The problem is I am kind of against flirting and asking girls out when they're at work. In my eyes they're just trying to do their job and it is not the place for it. There's no way I would walk up to her when the restaurant is busy and introduce myself. That could make her feel awkward and I don't think it's the time or place for that. However, I think my plan could work. For context, I am a male in my early twenties that recently graduated from college. I have seen this same girl on a dating app sometime within the past year and her interests really drew me to her. Before anyone asks, it was my buddy's tinder account that I seen her on, as I do not have an actual account myself. So the plan I was thinking of is to simply write down a note on a napkin or small piece of paper that says something along the lines of "Hey, I think you're really attractive. Text me." And then leave my number. Or I could just say "text me" and leave my number. There's so many different routes to this and I don't know how to go about it. I was thinking of handing it to her on my way out of the restaurant when I'm done eating. The problem is how exactly would I go about this? Would I just walk up to her and be like "Hey, I wanted to give this to you" and hand her the note then walk away? The part where I'm really looking for advice is what would be the proper delivery/best thing to say/do as I hand her the note?