Just like the title also to be clear I am the 29 F. My brother is getting married and I am a bridesmaid, my boyfriend is not. My boyfriend has a young son and several other people who are invited or a part of the wedding party also have kids but this is a kid free wedding. My boyfriend just said that is "fucked up" and he will not be attending the wedding if his son can't go. I know my future sister in law was going back and forth on the decision and was going to make an exception for some but decided not to because she thought that wouldn't be fair to others. I don't know how to handle this. Its not my wedding and I don't have a say but I want my boyfriend who will hopefully one day be my husband to be there because it is my family. No other people who are a part of the wedding seem to have a problem with this. Can you help me? Also! My mom already got him and I a room at the place where the wedding is going to be.