I think it’s so cruel when people switch up after intimacy with absolutely no communication as to why. Why do people do this? It’s pure cowardice if you ask me
Feel any different? Grow some balls and say so! A simple “Hey, I’m realizing I want something different” or “This isn’t working for me” will go a long way
For context: I (23F) am dating casually and everyone I meet knows this and knows I don’t plan on asking for any commitment. Yet they introduce some energy they know they can’t maintain and switch up after intimacy. I just don’t get it!
If you don’t want to be intimate anymore, say that. If you want to just “scratch an itch”, be honest. If you’re catching feelings, admit that and deal with what comes after. One doesn’t have to be “special” to you to deserve basic human decency, and tbh, I think it’s indicative of your character if you treat people like this.
P.S.: Not looking for advice on my dating approach. I’m just frustrated that basic communication seems impossible for some people