I dated a guy for 3 months. It felt perfect — constant love-messeges, reassurance, promises of marriage, expensive dates, flowers, a pendant, and he even travelled 3000 km just to meet me. Everything looked real.
But something felt off, as he told me that he has never been into any relationship before, so I checked his Facebook.
I found his ex of 6 years. I connected woth her, She told me he was still texting her, begging to fix things. They broke up because she caught him cheating multiple times. It has been 2 ywars of their breakup now and still he texted her everyday to get back.

I confronted him. He apologized, promised to change, promised he loved only me. And I believed him. He texted his ex the same thing — that he loved me and would change for me. It was a clousure for both of them. Things weren't easy but still we tried to fix it.
He visited again, more gifts, more dates, more romance. Honestly, anyone would have believed him.
But tgis time, I trusted my gut and checked his following list.
I found out he was also seeing another women he met on a dating app. I was shocked to my core, I confronted again, cried and broke up with him this time.
That girl waa so sweet, she shared everything that happened between them, and basically he started ignoring her and ghosted after he met me.
It was hard for me to move on, and I had this constant intuition that there's someone else too, so I randomly texted a girl from his following, and yes, he was seeing her since the past 2 years. This time, everyone was shocked to the core as this guy was dating 3 women and texting his ex of 6 years at the same time.

That’s when I walked away for good. I exposed him to all the women. We were all done with him.

He still said he “felt a connection” with me and that his feelings never died — the same lines he told everyone else.

But Recently, I found out he blocked me and is busy patching up with the girl he was seeing for two years. Looks like they’re back together.

TL;DR, So my questions are:

  1. Was I that easy to forget? Did those efforts and constant chasing mean nothing?

  2. Do men ever miss the woman who leaves, exposes them, and refuses to be manipulated?
    Or do they always choose the one who stays even after knowing everything?

  3. And be honest: will he ever miss me? Or blocking me and going back to her means I’ve already been erased from his life?

I am not going back to him, but I've a lot of questions in my mind. Why did he invest his time, money and efforts if it was all meaningless for him?
He asked me to shut him out, and he should dissappear from my life after our breakup, but he's still with that girl, comforting her and wiping her tears. Does that mean that I was his side piece?


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