But no one that I meet or take interest in, is ever interested in settling down or being in a relationship… it’s quite sad for me because I’m almost 30 and every encounter I have everyone mentions they’re actively dating or just being casual. I recently met this guy and we hit it off immediately.. then boom he says he’s not in a stage where he wants to settle down, he wants to date multiple women, like for fun. Nothing wrong with actively dating a few people at once, it’s not really my cup of tea, and you’re kind of doomed from the start.. just hoping you get picked.. This ranges from like 27-35 and none of them want love (from me i guess 🤷🏾♀️). It may not help the demographic of men i like.. but it’s hard out here.. losing hope. How do i stop attracting these people😭 the only ones that do want something serious are the ones I have no interest in.
The illusion of options might be killing relationships