We’ve been dating for 4 years and living together for 2. I’ve always wanted to try out snowboarding since I live in a country that’s quite famous for ski/snowboard resorts.
Unfortunately, my bf (44m) is super reluctant to go with me (36f) because his ex was an avid snowboarder. They apparently went on a snowboarding trip before that was super unpleasant. He gets upset if I do any sort of research like looking up lessons and affordable resorts. He also gets offended when I offer to with friends instead if he’s that triggered by it.
It’s making me really upset that I can’t even try something because of his ex. It feels really unfair.