hello everyone! I (23F) and my boyfriend (25M) have been together for a little over 2 years now. living together for about a year.
as always, beginning of the relationship was great! we communicated well, got along awesomely, etc etc. but i feel like the past few months he couldn’t care less about how i feel or even just me in general.
we used to do everything together, now i feel like he only sees me as a servant to cook, clean, and have sex. never bothers to ask me about my day, do things that i’d like to do, i could go on. i’m down to do basically anything he’d like to go do just to spend time with him, but he is not. we’ve had multiple discussions about me feeling like his personal servant and it’s the same response every time, “i don’t see it that way! you’re my gf, i’m allowed to want to have sex with you!” “you don’t haavveee to cook/clean…” but if i don’t do either of those things, it would never get done.
he is a very touchy person, but he has known from the beginning i do not enjoy being overly touched(inappropriately). we’ve had multiple conversations about it and he stops doing it for awhile but just goes right back to it. i’ve been pretty open with how i feel about this and he just seems to not care, whatsoever. he’s very “you’re my gf i should be able to touch you whenever and wherever!!” there are plenty of other things that have gone on that he doesn’t care enough to listen to me about, but we won’t get into that. i feel like a broken record constantly saying “please stop touching me.”
i’m honestly lost, exhausted, and unsure what to do. breaking up has come to mind multiple times because i feel unwanted and used all at the same time. any advice would be appreciated.🙂
TL;DR: boyfriend seems to not care about me and won’t stop being touchy, help!