I (27m) am basically too small for traditional penetration to really work properly – other than the advice to work on oral and other skills, are there any other tricks or compensations and how do I handle it in terms of communicating with the girl (25f) beforehand?

I (27m) am basically too small for traditional penetration to really work properly – other than the advice to work on oral and other skills, are there any other tricks or compensations and how do I handle it in terms of communicating with the girl (25f) beforehand?

Would just love any advice and tips from anyone who has been in a similar situation and found an approach that works well for them. I know it’s a tricky topic but I’m hoping to also help normalise the fact that traditional sex just isn’t an option for some couple for many reasons.

TL;DR How do I handle being very small in a relationship?