I (30f) recently got in a relationship with (32m) two months ago. I am not the type to snoop and will not go through his phone because I respect my partner’s privacy. However, he opened his DMs on IG to look at a post I sent him in front of me, and I noticed there was a girl he was communicating with listed right below me. I also noticed her stories are placed at the beginning of his home page. He began looking at stories with me, but made sure to skip hers. This is all very suspicious for me and I am feeling insecure about the nature of their relationship. Again, I haven’t gone through the chat so I am not entirely sure if I am making scenarios up in my head, but just feeling really unsafe. Should I bring this up to him? How can I initiate this topic about being in contact with other women? I am ok with my partner having female friend if they are 100% platonic, that’s not an issue for me. But I just feel like you wouldn’t skip a story in front of your gf if they are your friend? I hope I am not overreacting; I want to have a mature and grounded conversation about it. I’d appreciate any advice. Thank you.
tl;dr BF of 2 months has chat with another girl on IG, skips her stories when I am present. How can I initiate the conversation about this?