Hey Reddit
I (36F) met a guy on Tinder a few months after leaving a long, draining relationship. I told him upfront I wasn’t looking for a relationship, just casual fun.
We only see each other every other week, because I have kids. But when we do, we hang out, have great sex, watch movies, cuddle all night and he stays until the next day. He’s calm, funny, caring and excited about small things. He also sends check-ins and snaps, remembers little details, and jokes about things we’ve done. He’s relaxed, not pushy and I feel genuinely happy and safe around him.
I’m realizing I like him more than casual, but I’m unsure how to express it without pressuring him or ruining the vibe. He is really hard to read, and not very expressive and it usually feels like I'm the one who has to take the initiative ro meet up.
What’s a chill, low-pressure way to show him I want more than casual?
Thanks!