So my ex boyfriend has been feeling bad about himself for a long time… low self-esteem, etc., but lately it's been escalating. Sometimes it would be good, but then it all goes to shit again. I didn't know how to help him because he stopped seeing a psychologist, and I'm not a specialist in helping him (he said that he will go to her again but idk because he dont have now anyone to be with him when he feel down). The problem is, he didn't break up because something wasn't right in the relationship or in me. He's been feeling too overwhelmed lately, too, about his own feelings about himself. He said he saw no other way to alleviate it than to end the relationship so he wouldn't feel guilty about not giving me what I needed (he was giving me exactly what I needed, and I didn't need anything more). He said he loved me and that he didn't want to do this, but he had to. So, here's my question: I'm going to talk to my psychologist on Thursday to get a fresh perspective on this, and then I'm going to see him because he has some of my stuff. Am I the only one who sees that there's something worth fighting for, considering he simply doesn't see any other option? Do you have any ideas on how to resolve this?