Pretty much the title – our main living room is my husbands game room. Fine whatever we don’t have kids and don’t host in that room. But if i decide to sit in there with him and if he gets super loud (screaming, cackling, hooting, yelling) i ask him to tone it down a bit he waves me off telling me that I can go somewhere else and it’s his room in his house and I can leave the room if he’s too loud.
I pay for the house just as much as he does and while the room is set up for his use and entertainment (I don’t even use the tv and if I do and he wants it he gets it) I feel that it’s disrespectful and inconsiderate to at least check his volume if I sit near him.
I don’t care did he games. It’s his hobby and he had tons of friends to play with. He wears headphones so I don’t hear anything else but still is INCREDIBLY loud.
How do I address this? Currently debating BLASTING music in my office at 8am on a Saturday since it’s “my room”.
TLDR: my husband does not care how loud he is when he plays video games and tells me I’m responsible for moving further away from him and out of his room.