Went on a few dates with a guy and things were going so well. Each date better than the last, easy conversation for hours in the last couple of dates, attraction and chemistry seemed to be there on both of our parts, lots of laughing and talks surrounding the big topics. He'd shown a lot of interest and then suddenly, after our last date, the vibe changed. We had had another date scheduled, but today he let me know he's not feeling it.
I felt the vibe shift over text so I saw it coming, but I'm so confused. He seemed more sure than I was at first, but especially after the last date, I'd been very happy with the direction things were going.
He said it had nothing to do with me or anything I said or did, but what the hell was it then?
I'm exhausted. I'm getting older and am feeling pressure from myself and my biological clock to get settled. But this type of situation makes me hesitant to keep trying, when someone can do a 180 from one week to the next for no apparent reason.
Edit: I'm 28, he's 30