For context, I typically only see this guy every two weeks because he has his kids every other weekend. After every weekend we hang out, he says he really wants to see me during the work week for dinner or even to come by and say hi. But he never does it because I guess his work schedule is so busy and he has a lot of late nights. I totally get this, when I work long shifts, I’m just trying to get in bed as fast as possible afterwards. But why constantly bring up seeing me during the week if it’s never gonna happen? For example, he texted me last night about possibly getting dinner tonight or lunch Friday. I responded maybe an hour later last night that both work for me. It’s 2:30 pm the following day and I haven’t gotten a text back. Like…. Why???? It also bothers me that I make myself so available for someone who is never available, but I’m also trying to let my ego go and be understanding. I don’t know guys tell me your thoughts!
ps: I work full time and have my 8 year old daughter full time and I’m literally over here willing to play tetris with my schedule to see this dude…. I’m 27F he’s 43M, bit of an age gap.