Hope some of you nice gentlemen can give me some advice from the other side.
Husband/38 has suddenly flipped from the horny fratboy to not wanting to be touched or touch me, almost overnight.
Hes been getting Blue Chews for about a year… usually he just needed it if we were partying too hard. We have a very active sex life: 4-5x a week so I wasnt aware it was getting worse until I seen his bottle was empty. He was embarrassed when I asked if he needed refills.
Other than bedroom issues: hes been neglecting housework, not helping with our kids (im a sahm so I need 5mins), sleeping on the couch and doesnt want to do or talk about anything at all. Is all this a common response to ED? How can I address this without prying?
- he is on meds for depression and seeing the VA for counseling. He has some health issues HBP and untreated sleep apnea. Hes a graveyard shift nurse, so he has poor eating habits and is pretty sedentary. I just want to help him 💜