What do people do nowadays when they "go out"?
Just for context, I don't eat out because I follow a diet, and I really don't compromise it even for a family outing. I don't have any hobbies, or should I say socialising hobbies. But I do want to go to clubs because I'm now over age to go clubbing, etc.
Of course, not everyone, including me, wants to stay up till midnight all the time, but then again, I can't think of anything else to do as an activity to do with a new friend.
- Shopping doesn't make sense to me, because you can do that by yourself.
- Just hanging out sounds boring, meeting up just to sit and talk, I don't really understand it.
- Eating out is something I'm willing to do, but watching them eat is kinda awkward, no, although I dont mind?
coming to think of it now, I work a crap job and dont have much money to start with, perhaps that's why there are limited options, but when I think about hanging out and making plans, it's doing activities that will be enjoyed by both parties, etc.
Any suggestions on what to do with someone you just met, or what everyone else does here when they make plans? Am I just being lazy and kinda selfish because I only see clubbing as a way to have fun?
P.S. I also don't drink or do any drugs anymore. So no wine tasting and the like.