So something that is just bizarre to me, is how often I get hit on by younger guys. I’m 44 (F), and I’m not ugly but I’m not what I would consider hot. I see so many beautiful women and I just don’t see how young guys find me attractive or would want to get with me. The only guys I get hit on by, are ages 22-30’s. My kids are 22 and 25 and I just can’t date that young. It feels so weird to me even the thought of it. Tonight, the cashier at the 7/11 boldly flirted with me, asked if I was married or had a boyfriend, asked why not when I said no and then asked me for my number, telling me age doesn’t matter when I said I’m too old for you.
I was shocked not only because he’s only 30, but also because he was super attractive, like really attractive, and also Arabic. I think the Arabic part surprised me because I never get hit on by Arabic men and only really know most of them to be with women of their own culture. I know that’s not always true, but is the norm from my experience and usually I’ve only seen young Arabic men, with extremely beautiful white women, which I’m just not.
I want to be flattered but I’m just more confused because I’m really not an it girl. I stopped dying my hair so I have a lot of grey, I get no work done and have wrinkles, I usually am not dressed up when I go in there at all, and I’m just not someone I would ever expect men to randomly tell me I’m beautiful and ask for my number. I’m a pretty basic 44 year old woman who doesn’t glam up at all to go to 7/11. 😂
So guys, what is going on here? I think if I was hit on more by guys my own age and older, I would think it’s because I’m more beautiful than I think I am. But I also have a mirror and am also aware of what really beautiful women look like. That it’s only this young age range and it’s several times a month, I just know there’s something more going on here.
I will say, I know this happens to a lot of women my age because I see women talk about it often online, but from what I can tell, we are all equally confused by it. Thank you in advance for your feedback.🙏🏻