Please be kind guys because this is very personal to me. So I (21M) recently started seeing a woman (22F) and she’s coming over to my apartment soon for the first time. I’m honestly kind of nervous because I’ve never really had a girl over before. She is the first girl I kissed, first girl that reciprocated romantic interest to me, and hopefully the first girl I will have sex with but I'm not expecting anything. So it's a lot lol.
It’s not a messy apartment or anything, but I keep overthinking every little detail like whether she’ll find my place too plain, if my cooking is good enough, or if I’ll come off as awkward when we’re alone. I really want her to feel comfortable and have a good time, but the nerves keep kicking in.
Women, what would you think if a guy told you he was nervous about you coming over? Would that be sweet, honest, or a bit of a turn off?