I’m 19M and have never had a gf , I can socialise properly but despite lots of talking stages and 4 dates nothing as happened , teen love as gone out the window , I do have sort of high standards but genuinely am wondering if this is worth it , as an average looking college dude it makes me want to crash out at how hard it is . IDK why but how much ever I become self confident my self worth has been tied to getting woman it has been like this since 13 . The few girls I asked out in the past 5 years ( excluding dating app , which surprisingly are the only ones that have gotten me dates) have been mixed experience some say no , some in between and not a hard yes , while i’m not a kiss-less virgin , as i’ve been kissed its taking a toll on my mental health and being in college increases the fomo of seeing pretty woman all round and unable to do anything as I’m not the extrovert, cold approach kind of type . Moreover living in a asian country it’s frowned upon ,there are basically no social environment such as clubs that are taken seriously , and on top of that I feel invisible in real life , idk man everything happens so fast .