Need some feedback on the following:
I am a 27M and recently started working at a gym. Met a girl there who’s my age too and we matched online. Then in person I asked her to grab a coffee a few weeks ago and we locked down a time and place but I didn’t confirm, and it didn’t end up happening. Which sucked bc I’ve been outta the game a while and just figured if you say you’re gunna do something you do it.
Anyway both ends were messaging back and forth and it was feeling pretty good. So I gave her my number. Some time goes by and then she literally says I’m chickening out and isn’t ready to date yet. It’s a pretty irritating bc I was really into her but I’m like okay whatever, you have my number if things change.
Now here’s the kicker, the other night she comes into the gym and I treat her just like another costumer bc I don’t wanna fuck it up. She leaves the gym and messages me on tinder asking for my instagram. I gave it to her and we both have liked each other’s stories over Halloweekend.
Now idk what to do, I wanna make a move but don’t wanna fuck it up so I’m willing to wait too. But it’s just super tough to navigate