To cut it short my relationship isn’t working anymore. There has been talk about breaking up because I just don’t feel like it’s working anymore. I almost get the “yuck” feeling when I’m around him. I don’t want to kiss him anymore (haven’t for a long time) we don’t cuddle, hold hands or even sleep in the same bed.
But I can’t help wanting the D. I wake up thinking about sex, think about it all day and during the night, also having sex dreams to the point I’m orgasming in my sleep, literally I wake up straight after, legs shaking, pussy pounding, sweating and feeling like I’ve reached the gates of heaven lol. I don’t want sex with him exactly, I just want sex. I’m not going to do it because I think that will just confuse things after the most recent conversation. I’d never cheat or anything like that (we haven’t officially broke up atm)
Masterbsting doesn’t work for me, I don’t like it, never have. Really trying to fight the urge. I’ve always had a low sex drive so not sure if it’s hormone related or something.
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use a dildo etc
find a friend with benefits
You have all the answers you need. You just have to act on it.
Download a dating app and find yourself some D. Practice safe sex and all that stuff, which I’m sure you will, and go get your fill.
Meanwhile, end the relationship so you don’t have to concern yourself about the “cheating” guilt since you’re clearly checked out.
Do yourself these favors and go get that urge satisfied!
U need 2 break up in a hurry & find another man. Its admirable u haven’t cheated.
Break up & get in the apps, I promise you that you will find something within the day
You’ve committed to breaking up in every way except actually doing it. Rip the bandaid off already.