I met this guy in a club (we are both 29). We went on a couple dates and have been talking every day for a couple of weeks. We had sex but he had issues staying hard and it was not satisfying for me. I liked him though so I wanted to see where things go.
On Halloween, he had plans to attend a party, and I was going out with my friends. I was busy getting ready and didn’t respond for a few hours. Then I checked my phone and he sent me a photo, without a caption, of him and a girl. It was a mirror selfie, the girl in a revealing costume, and you can see in the mirror that the room is empty despite it being a party?
I asked him if that’s a friend (because I had no context) and he said it was. But the fact that he even sent me that picture, instead of one alone or with a group or with a guy friend, gave me weird vibes.
My friends said he’s probably feeling insecure about the bad sex and is trying to assert his masculinity? All I know is I have completely cooled off this guy and lost interest as a result of receiving that photo.
Any insight?