I know there’s no single answer to that but I really can’t understand my husband on this. I’m 45f he’s 48m – married 18 years. We always do it at least 2-3 times on weekends and usually once during week. Then we’ll be going to bed on like a Thursday and he says I didn’t touch him at all that day and saying things about a sexless marriage .. yada yada .. and I want to shout – we did it 2 days ago! He’s extremely needy emotionally and I guess physically too. I’m a much colder person, I never actually crave sex, but I’ll get into with him even if it requires a little acting. I just want some guy to tell him how lucky he is because it seems like he just be happy with this. But it seems like it’s never enough