I would appreciate hearing your thoughts on my recent date. I'm 30M, and my date is 27F. The date was arranged by my cousin's girlfriend, who is a friend of hers who works the trauma unit at a hospital. My date initiated contact, and we coordinated the details of our outing. I picked her up and drove us to our spot, and I was pleasantly surprised by how well we connected during the drive. This positive dynamic continued throughout the date as we discovered numerous shared interests. I felt very comfortable in her company, and our conversations flowed effortlessly, free of any awkwardness, and included enjoyable flirting and playful banter. By the end of the night, we both expressed to see each other again. Due to an upcoming trip on my part and her demanding work schedule this month, our next date will be some time away, but she has agreed to make plans for a weekday upon my return.
The challenge is that she does not frequently engage in texting, calls, or FaceTime, which results in very limited communication. She no longer owns a car as she resides in the city, and I am located an hour away in the suburbs. However, distance is not a concern for me, as I have family and friends in the city and am accustomed to commuting. I am confident that we can address transportation once and if our relationship develop further, so I am not overly worried about that aspect.
But, a big thing is she's thinking about moving across the country when her lease is up in the spring. So, I'm just not sure what to do with this, knowing it's in the back of my head. I've been on a lot of dates, and this one felt different; I see potential with her. So, I'm trying to be careful. Maybe I should just not take the moving seriously, as it might not even happen, and just go have fun with her, especially since Christmas is right around the corner. If I didn't see the potential, I would have ended it already.