I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 7 months. Things started out good, but lately it’s been rough. We’ve had fights where we didn’t talk for a week or more. The last one was bad — we argued, then went 10 days without speaking. She eventually reached out, but things still feel off.
Some of the main problems:
– She’s asked me for money before. I gave it without expecting it back, but later she pressured me again and that didn’t feel right.
– She once compared me to another guy. When I asked, she said he was “just a friend,” but she’s never introduced me to him or even mentioned him before. That really bothered me.
– When I tried to meet face to face to talk, she avoided it.
– I know I’m not perfect either — sometimes I over‑explain instead of getting straight to the point.
I really did care about her, and that’s why I gave her so many chances. But this last situation left me feeling disappointed and disrespected.
Now I’m stuck. Part of me wants to call her again and try to set up a meeting. Another part of me feels like I’ve already done enough. If I don’t call, I’m scared the door will close for good. If I do call, I feel like I’m just chasing someone who isn’t meeting me halfway.
So my question is: what should I do in the next 3 days? Should I call her one last time, hold my ground and wait, or just step back completely since she’s been so inconsistent?
TL;DR: Been with my girlfriend 7 months. She’s asked for money, compared me to another guy (a “friend” I’ve never met), avoids face‑to‑face talks, and goes silent after fights. I’ve given her chances but feel disrespected. Should I call her again in the next 3 days or hold my ground and wait?