I am pretty confident, and I can speak my mind clearly without caring too much about what others think. However, I do not have this contagious energy needed to lead a large group of people.
I know a few people like this, and they're not afraid of giving compliments, being loud, and they always know what to say, even lie a little to build rapport. I can't even imagine myself being in this position yet, but I really want to be there. It's like their brains are wired differently.
How do I change from being regular to bold and charismatic?