Met this guy on reddit and we hit off instantly. I wasn't looking for anything but we got along really well and both of us started catching feelings. It's been 3 weeks, I thought everything was going well. Then he told me yesterday he's not really good with long distance relationships. He's torn because he has feelings for me but his issue with long distance relationships and his trust issue from his previous relationship is making him undecided.
That actually broke me because I thought things were reciprocal between us. It's been years since I felt connected to someone genuinely and now things are looking bad with this guy. I told him I'm ok but I actually cried last night. I asked him if he could tell me when he is able to decide if he wants to keep this connection or move on from it. He promised he will. He's a really good guy. And he apologised for leading me on but it wasn't his intention, just needed to figure out if he should take the chance with me despite his fears I mentioned earlier.
Now idk how to interact with him because what if I he decides he can't do this long distance thing and unresolved trust issue. I'll just get hurt. I'm taking a step back when I talk to him now. Less of myself.
TL;DR. Caught feelings but not sure if I should give him time to make a decision or leave now before I invest anymore time and emotions in this connection.