I'm sick at the moment. Really sick. Voice is barely a whisper when I can speak and non-existent the rest of the time. My 18month old has been vomiting the past three days. My older two are ok. Some allergy issues but nothing bad. My husband has been feeling sick as well but he's mostly over it.
Today is Halloween. My in-laws have a habit of showing up whenever they want with a text saying " on my way to see the girls". It's been an argument for 8 years. With my husband conviently forgetting that we had the conversations about this.
So we talked about it AGAIN today before taking the girls out. An hour later im out getting food and I get a phone call from husband saying his mom wants to stop by. I can't even speak. I just hang up. Im overwhelmed with being sick and having to clean multiple messes of bodily fluids. I just can't.
Now he's mad. Saying its a stupid unimportant thing to start anything over. I tell him I had already discussed it literally an hour or so before about this exact problem that always occurs. But still he's mad I even brought it up.
Also when our older two stayed the weekend with his parents our 9 year old was bit in the face by a lab because his parents took them to someone's house without our knowledge and decided she didnt need any supervision around a strange dog.
Im still pissed about this but its another incident that husband wants swept under the rug.
It's hard to feel like he prioritizes our family when he keeps doing things like this.