This has happened to me (F32) several times in the last few years, so I feel like I'm missing something. A couple years ago, I hooked up with a guy I met at a bar. The next morning, he texted me saying he had such a great time with me. When I replied asking if he wanted to hang out again, he ghosted. Most recently, had a Tinder date that went really well. We spent close to 5 hours together, like felt more than just a hook up, and after being physical, he said he enjoyed talking to me and asked me if I wanted to see him again. Then, before I left, he asked me to message him (still on the app) when I got home, so I did and said thanks for a fun night, here's my number if you want to hang again. Ghosted and unmatched me. I was very confused. Why do men do this? Or is this a me problem?