So I’m a sophomore/junior in college, and there’s this guy in my friend group that I’ve been talking to kind of lowkey. We’re not dating yet, just getting to know each other and seeing where it goes.
We haven’t told the rest of the group because honestly, people can be messy sometimes. I don’t really want to hear things about what he does when he’s single, and I’m sure he feels the same about me. Plus, I feel like if people knew, some of them would purposely make it weird or play in my face about it.
So we’re keeping it to ourselves for now. I’m just curious does that come off as immature or sneaky, or is it normal to want some privacy while you figure things out?