30m here. Went on a first date yest. I feel like it went well, she was laughing, we were vibing and was fun overall. Idk why I do this after but if I don’t know fs that the girl is interested then I usually don’t hit them up the following days to make a 2nd date. It’s like my head says ahh she’s probably not into you, don’t even bother reaching out. It’s super annoying but it’s like a coping mechanism to not get rejected or something I guess. When I dropped her off she did mention it’d be cool to see me again before the weekend was over; but ya idk. Anyone else do this??