I (20F) feel like I just keep getting led on by guys. we'll usually go for a date, and even though I feel like it ends really well, they'll ghost me for no apparent reason. sometimes they'll tell me they had a great time, then ghost me. other times they'll end it with a kiss, then ghost me. every time it's just unexpected and idky? when it's a bad date, I get it, but I don't understand why I'm being ghosted after good dates??
I make it very clear before the date that I'm looking for something genuine and that I will absolutely not hook up with them, so I'm not sure why these dates are ending up in radio silence all the time? could it be my appearance?? maybe my height or weight or something about me is not up their alley? I don't get it. does anyone have any guidance, it's impacting my self confidence a little :/.