I found something on my girlfriends phone that broke something inside me, 20m 20f
I didn't know where else to vent to so I made an alt and came here I (20m) was at my girlfriends (20f) house the night before Thanksgiving to start off there were a bunch of signs something was off with her for a while I just didn't act on them, but still at her place slept woke up she went to work its now Thanksgiving day she comes home around 12 ish we have to get to my place for Thanksgiving at 2:30
she rushing leaves her phone next to me while im also next to her parents and I'm curiosity gets the better of me and I opne and go through her snap
low and behold shes been texting her convicted criminal ex boyfriend behind my back taling shit about me and thanking him for it, also turns out when she turned her location off 2 weeks prior she was at his fucking house 5 minutes away from me the instant shock it had on me its snapped something deep inside me like how could the girl ive been with fir 2 year and been 100% faithful to do this to me
when I confronted her she cried i cried a lot she said it was just anger she didn't mean what she said she was just mad because I was keeping track of how much we called and texted, which was basically never we stopped talking regularly for like 3 months, we stopped talking regularly 2 weeks after we got back from a family cruise I TOOK HER ON
so yea I kept track of how much we talked and called because I felt like she was pulling away from me and guess what she was I just dont know what to do every time I think about her I get upset and my heart beats really fast and I hyperventilate we aren't broken up yet she was my first girlfriend and we have been together 2 years I still love her but I cant look past this i ended up telling her if she blocks him on everything with proof i will continue to make this work,
thanks for reading any advice would be greatly appreciated
TLDR my girlfriend texted her ex talking shit about me and I I told her to block him on everything to get a second chance