My bf (33m) told me (28f) that when he says something I don’t agree with I’m starting to make a “face” and end up crying playing a victim card. I’m an easy to cry person, always was. He thinks that I’m manipulating him. I just don’t understand how. It’s my genuine reaction. I even go to a different room for him not to see me cry. I don’t need him to hug me or say that he’s sorry. It’s just like I can’t hold it in me, even if I try. He says that he’s threatened by me crying, and feels like he should hide his emotions. I told him multiple times that this is not what I want, I really want him to tell me what’s bothering him. But in the end I’m the one blamed for having an emotions. I feel like I’m unintentionally mentally drained him. I don’t want him to feel this way but can’t keep my tears inside