I (28M) haven’t been on a proper date in a long time. Apps don’t really work for me. I tried reconnecting with a girl (26F) I knew years and years ago. I messaged her on Snapchat and everything went well immediately and we were catching up. 20 messages in and we had a time scheduled to get drinks and catch up (also heavy flirting during all of this).
We agreed on 7pm and the place yesterday and today I messaged her about something around 1pm. Didn’t get a reply but whatever, it wasn’t that important and I understand everyone is busy. I message again at 530pm confirming that we are still on. At 615pm, I’m literally sitting in my car waiting to leave because I like to get to the place early and she just says “can we reschedule? I’m so sorry”. I replied “no worries, what does your next week look like?” And no replies since, that was 4 hours ago.
I just feel like an idiot and a fool. I spent all day today going through every scenario. Spent the time shaving, showering, getting an outfit picked. Skipped lunch to go get a haircut instead. Got my car cleaned up. All to get cancelled on with no reason, explanation, or follow up. It feels bad. Maybe I’ll get more of an explanation tomorrow but I don’t know. I’m not sure if I should give her a second chance or not.