So we have been together about 4 years now, My boyfriend keeps accusing me of messaging other people and dressing for others, I rarely even txt my friends let alone anyone romantically. Hes been caught numerous time throughout this relationship talking to other people sexually. And on the dressing nice thing I've finally stated to feel myself again after having a baby and I'm dressing different not much different from when we first got together he things its for someone but its for myself it makes me feel nice. I'm aloud to dress in tight clothes and makeup for myself. We've went over this again and again but he just he thinks its for other. How else can i get him to understand this is for me not anyone specific, also is he projecting because hes messaging others?
TL;DR,- BF thinks I'm dressing nice for others and messaging other people.