For a bit of context, I (25f) have been with my boyfriend (27m) for 6 years and we have two kids together. For the last year and a bit he has worked out of the country. Recently, his phone contacts were somehow linked to my snap chat. The only thing I can think of is he logged into my Snapchat in order for this to happen. We swears he didn’t and I also didn’t have any signs of someone logging in. He’s never done this in past and I have never logged into my Snapchat on his phone either. He was also out of the country when he did and had recently gotten a new phone too since I had last seen him. Since his contacts ended up in my Snapchat, I’m constantly getting “new” friend suggestions that say “in my contacts” which I know are people in his phone. I started to do some digging because some of the girls that were popping up in the suggested friends were questionable. I have found multiple women now from cities he’s worked in from the past year in a bit ( he travels to different cities, he’s not in the same city working all the time). He swears he doesn’t know how they got there and blames the fact that he used to share an Apple ID with his friend back in high school and that’s how they got there. As far as I know his friend does not work out of country like my boyfriend does and even if he did, the cities my boyfriend has worked in have been pretty random and not major cities so would be unlikely that him and his buddy have just so happened to have worked in the same area. Everything I have found, it really seems like he’s doing something shady. Whether he’s actually cheated or not, I do feel like he’s added these girls into his phone. He swears up and down he’s not done this, and has no idea who these women are. I honestly don’t want to come off as crazy but my last resort is to start messaging these women. How would you deal with this situation?