Let me preface this by saying I have shown irresponsible behavior by not using a condom but every time I do regret it.
Also, I'm not on BC.
One of my most recent partners, was a pull out and pray. I would consistently ask him about using a condom and he said "I trust you." I figured this guy was a "one off". That surely most men use a condom. At least in my experience especially since they know I'm not on any BC.
Well, fast forward to my new partner. I got caught up in the moment and I had asked him prior about sexual partners. He said it was only me. We didn't use a condom.
What is weird to me is he didn't ask at all if I was on BC. When I checked with him again after about sexual partners because we didn't use a condom, he laughed and said "I didn't even think of that." But still NO questions about BC.
Do most men assume women are on BC?